Prayer For My Abusive Partner
At 10:58 PM WAT on this Friday, May 30, 2025, your heart aches for your abusive partner, yearning for God’s transformative love to heal their brokenness while seeking His protection for yourself. As a Christian, you turn to prayer to navigate this painful journey with hope and faith.
This collection of 40 powerful prayers for my abusive partner, each paired with a comforting scripture, is crafted to guide you in interceding for your partner’s repentance and healing, while also seeking strength, wisdom, and safety for yourself. These prayers offer a spiritual lifeline, trusting God’s power to redeem and restore, even in the darkest moments of 2025.
1. Prayer for My Partner’s Heart
Dear God, my partner’s abusive actions hurt me. Soften their heart, filling it with Your love and kindness.
Ezekiel 36:26
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you.”
I pray for Your transformation in them. Thank You for Your healing. Amen.
2. Prayer for My Safety
Heavenly Father, I feel unsafe with my partner. Protect me from harm, surrounding me with Your angels.
Psalm 91:11
“For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways.”
I pray for Your protection over me. Thank You for Your care. Amen.
3. Prayer for My Partner’s Healing
Lord Jesus, my partner’s pain fuels their abuse. Heal their wounds, guiding them to Your peace.
Psalm 147:3
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
I pray for Your healing in their heart. Thank You for Your restoration. Amen.
4. Prayer for Wisdom in My Response
Merciful God, I’m unsure how to handle my partner’s abuse. Grant me wisdom to act with love and safety.
James 1:5
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously.”
I pray for Your guidance in my actions. Thank You for Your insight. Amen.
5. Prayer for My Partner’s Repentance
Loving Father, my partner’s abuse grieves You. Lead them to repentance, turning their heart to You.
2 Corinthians 7:10
“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation.”
I pray for Your conviction in them. Thank You for Your mercy. Amen.
6. Prayer for My Strength
Dear God, my partner’s abuse weakens me. Grant me strength to endure and seek Your will.
Isaiah 40:31
“Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.”
I pray for Your power in my heart. Thank You for Your support. Amen.
7. Prayer for My Partner’s Anger
Gracious Lord, my partner’s anger fuels abuse. Calm their spirit, replacing rage with Your peace.
Proverbs 16:32
“Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city.”
I pray for Your calm in them. Thank You for Your peace. Amen.
8. Prayer for My Emotional Healing
Lord Jesus, my partner’s abuse wounds my heart. Heal my pain, restoring my joy in You.
Psalm 34:18
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
I pray for Your healing for me. Thank You for Your closeness. Amen.
9. Prayer for My Partner’s Self-Control
Almighty Father, my partner lacks self-control. Fill them with Your Spirit, guiding their actions.
Galatians 5:22-23
“The fruit of the Spirit is… self-control.”
I pray for Your control in their life. Thank You for Your Spirit. Amen.
10. Prayer for My Courage
Dear God, fear grips me with my abusive partner. Grant me courage to seek help and Your will.
Joshua 1:9
“Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God will be with you.”
I pray for Your boldness in me. Thank You for Your presence. Amen.
11. Prayer for My Partner’s Redemption
Heavenly Father, my partner’s abuse darkens their soul. Redeem them, drawing them to Your light.
1 Timothy 2:4
“God wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.”
I pray for Your salvation for them. Thank You for Your love. Amen.
12. Prayer for My Peace
Lord Jesus, my partner’s abuse steals my peace. Fill me with Your calm, anchoring my heart.
Philippians 4:7
“The peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts.”
I pray for Your peace in me. Thank You for Your comfort. Amen.
13. Prayer for My Partner’s Humility
Merciful God, pride drives my partner’s abuse. Grant them humility, seeking Your way over their own.
Philippians 2:3
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition… but in humility value others above yourselves.”
I pray for Your humility in them. Thank You for Your example. Amen.
14. Prayer for My Protection from Fear
Loving Father, fear consumes me with my partner. Protect my heart, filling me with Your love.
1 John 4:18
“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear.”
I pray for Your love to shield me. Thank You for Your care. Amen.
15. Prayer for My Partner’s Transformation
Dear God, my partner’s abuse breaks my heart. Transform their life, making them new in You.
2 Corinthians 5:17
“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come.”
I pray for Your renewal in them. Thank You for Your power. Amen.
16. Prayer for My Faith
Gracious Lord, my partner’s abuse tests my faith. Strengthen my trust in Your plan for us.
Hebrews 11:1
“Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”
I pray for Your faith in my heart. Thank You for Your promises. Amen.
17. Prayer for My Partner’s Forgiveness
Lord Jesus, my partner holds onto grudges. Teach them to forgive, freeing them from abusive ways.
Colossians 3:13
“Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
I pray for Your forgiveness in their heart. Thank You for Your mercy. Amen.
18. Prayer for My Resilience
Almighty Father, my partner’s abuse wears me down. Grant me resilience to face each day with hope.
James 1:12
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial… they will receive the crown of life.”
I pray for Your resilience in me. Thank You for Your reward. Amen.
19. Prayer for My Partner’s Compassion
Dear God, my partner lacks compassion. Fill them with Your love, ending their abusive behavior.
Colossians 3:12
“Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”
I pray for Your compassion in them. Thank You for Your love. Amen.
20. Prayer for My Discernment
Heavenly Father, I need discernment with my abusive partner. Show me Your will for this relationship.
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart… he will make your paths straight.”
I pray for Your discernment in my choices. Thank You for Your guidance. Amen.
21. Prayer for My Partner’s Accountability
Lord Jesus, my partner avoids responsibility. Lead them to accountability, changing their abusive ways.
Galatians 6:5
“Each one should carry their own load.”
I pray for Your truth in their life. Thank You for Your justice. Amen.
22. Prayer for My Emotional Safety
Merciful God, my partner’s words wound me. Protect my heart, shielding me from emotional abuse.
Psalm 55:22
“Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you.”
I pray for Your shield over my heart. Thank You for Your care. Amen.
23. Prayer for My Partner’s Self-Worth
Loving Father, my partner’s low self-worth fuels abuse. Show them their value in You, healing them.
Psalm 139:14
“I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
I pray for Your love to restore them. Thank You for Your creation. Amen.
24. Prayer for My Hope
Dear God, my partner’s abuse dims my hope. Fill me with hope, trusting Your plan for change.
Romans 15:13
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him.”
I pray for Your hope in my heart. Thank You for Your joy. Amen.
25. Prayer for My Partner’s Peace
Gracious Lord, unrest drives my partner’s abuse. Grant them Your peace, calming their heart.
John 16:33
“In me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart!”
I pray for Your peace in them. Thank You for Your calm. Amen.
26. Prayer for My Support System
Lord Jesus, I feel alone with my abusive partner. Surround me with supportive loved ones.
Ecclesiastes 4:12
“A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
I pray for Your community around me. Thank You for Your support. Amen.
27. Prayer for My Partner’s Deliverance
Almighty Father, my partner is bound by abusive patterns. Deliver them, setting them free in You.
Psalm 34:17
“The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles.”
I pray for Your deliverance for them. Thank You for Your freedom. Amen.
28. Prayer for My Boundaries
Dear God, I struggle to set boundaries with my partner. Grant me strength to protect myself.
Proverbs 4:23
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
I pray for Your strength in my boundaries. Thank You for Your protection. Amen.
29. Prayer for My Partner’s Understanding
Heavenly Father, my partner doesn’t see their abuse. Open their eyes to understand their harm.
Psalm 119:18
“Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in your law.”
I pray for Your revelation in them. Thank You for Your truth. Amen.
30. Prayer for My Trust in God
Lord Jesus, my partner’s abuse shakes my trust. Help me trust Your plan for my future.
Psalm 28:7
“The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him.”
I pray for Your trust in my heart. Thank You for Your strength. Amen.
31. Prayer for My Partner’s Love
Merciful God, my partner’s abuse lacks love. Fill them with Your love, changing their actions.
1 John 4:7
“Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God.”
I pray for Your love in their heart. Thank You for Your source. Amen.
32. Prayer for My Healing from Trauma
Loving Father, my partner’s abuse leaves scars. Heal my trauma, restoring my peace in You.
Psalm 30:2
“Lord my God, I called to you for help, and you healed me.”
I pray for Your healing for me. Thank You for Your restoration. Amen.
33. Prayer for My Partner’s Patience
Dear God, impatience fuels my partner’s abuse. Grant them patience, softening their responses.
Romans 12:12
“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.”
I pray for Your patience in them. Thank You for Your grace. Amen.
34. Prayer for My Guidance
Gracious Lord, I need direction with my abusive partner. Show me Your path, whether to stay or leave.
Psalm 32:8
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go.”
I pray for Your guidance in my choices. Thank You for Your direction. Amen.
35. Prayer for My Partner’s Restoration
Lord Jesus, my partner’s brokenness leads to abuse. Restore their soul, making them whole in You.
Joel 2:25
“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten.”
I pray for Your restoration in them. Thank You for Your renewal. Amen.
36. Prayer for My Joy
Almighty Father, my partner’s abuse steals my joy. Fill me with Your joy, despite my pain.
Nehemiah 8:10
“The joy of the Lord is your strength.”
I pray for Your joy in my heart. Thank You for Your strength. Amen.
37. Prayer for My Partner’s Truthfulness
Dear God, deceit fuels my partner’s abuse. Lead them to live in truth, ending their harmful ways.
Proverbs 12:22
“The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.”
I pray for Your truth in them. Thank You for Your delight. Amen.
38. Prayer for My Protection from Manipulation
Heavenly Father, my partner manipulates me. Protect me from their control, granting me clarity.
Psalm 121:7
“The Lord will keep you from all harm—he will watch over your life.”
I pray for Your protection over me. Thank You for Your vigilance. Amen.
39. Prayer for My Partner’s Faith
Lord Jesus, my partner lacks faith, fueling abuse. Draw them to You, transforming their heart.
Hebrews 11:6
“Without faith it is impossible to please God… he rewards those who earnestly seek him.”
I pray for Your faith in them. Thank You for Your reward. Amen.
40. Prayer for My Future
Merciful God, my partner’s abuse clouds my future. Guide me to Your plan, filled with hope and safety.
Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you… plans to give you hope and a future.”
I pray for Your hope for my future. Thank You for Your plan. Amen.
Conclusion
As the clock reads 10:58 PM WAT on May 30, 2025, your prayers for your abusive partner become a testament to your faith in God’s ability to heal and transform. These 40 prayers for my abusive partner, anchored in scripture, provide Christians with a path to seek change in their partner’s heart while finding peace and protection for themselves.
Whether praying for reconciliation or discernment to move forward, these prayers affirm God’s love as your refuge. Let them guide you, trusting that His grace will lead you and your partner toward healing, hope, and a future aligned with His will
